I think it's...
Its who you value.
What do you value?
And...
Not every sibling can be friends.
You have to differentiate.
Sometimes that is enough like...
You know...
I love you, I've got you,
If anything goes down and, and that's the essence of the family.
Not everyone who has family has a relationship, so I think ...
If you merge the two then that's where
People get confused, you know i think...
You have to make conscious decisions,
And i think also, it's also about stages of life as well.
When people are building, sometimes they don't have time...
Like...
So like when you said.
You only meet people when...
You know there's something for you to do or you're already
Doing it, so it's easier to meet them because you're building.
Let's build our lives and stay as close as possible,
But we don't have the time to be spending
Every day together and these kind of things.
So my thing is, when we get to that stage, where we can,
Then that's why I'm always an advocate for new adventures.
I'm always like, ah, what more can we do?
I...
I totally agree with all the things you're saying.
Umm, Family and friends.
It's interesting and ...
This mix into mental health.
For your family not to be friends,
Then it's a psychological thing because you grew up in the same
Household and this is where a conscious decision's come together.
You've grown up in the same household, depending...
So.
Depending on characteristically or
Even on essentials we don't get taught.
Or because friends don't necessarily have to have the same interests.
Right?
Especially when we start talking about goals and goal oriented.
So it means you can make a conscious decision to do
Something together in order to solidify a relationship.
So you grow up around somebody's house,
Together you work again to solidify that circle.
Right?
You're obviously different, you obviously have different interests.
Right?
It doesn't mean you shouldn't spend time
Together because you're different, right?
That's not valuing what's at home or
Not being conscious of where you are.
And then you start spinning out to start
Moving to making your friends your family.
Again this is because of the instability you're taught.
Because of...
Broken pieces...