Went for my favorite lipstick but I thought twice You told me you didn't like it But I thought it was nice Going out to have a drink with some old friends Can't put down my phone 'Cause in a minute he'd call again Every time I try, try to break the habit I take a deep breath and I remember that This ain't that and he's not him Remind myself I can be myself again Waking up to someone new Thanking God that it's you 'cause This ain't that and he's not him He'd always call me names Not the ones I wanted to hear Now it's only "baby, honey" whispered in my ear He'd always put me down when I was going up He always wanted more but more was never enough Everytime I try, try to break the madness I take a deep breath and I remember that This ain't that and he's not him Remind myself I can be myself again Waking up to someone new Thanking God that it's you 'cause This ain't that and he's not him Oh, oh, oh, oh Oh, oh, oh Guess it's good going through him to get to you And it's worth it all with what he put me through This ain't that and he's not him Thank God This ain't that and he's not him Remind myself I can be myself again Waking up to someone new Thanking God that it's you 'cause This ain't that and he's not him This ain't that and he's not him Remind myself I can be myself again Waking up to someone new Thanking God that it's you 'cause This ain't that and he's not him No, this ain't that and he's not him