She asked me out, I thought there'd be no harm in dating But soon her eyes would cut me like a piece of broken glass And deep inside, I felt myself disintegrating I then found out what it's like to pay for someone's past So tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame Is it you or is it me? We made love, at first it seemed like God was coaching As time went on, it became a way to keep me in my place No more respect, no more passion, no more lover's doubting Two people cursed, so pissed and sad, it's written on their face So tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame Is it you or is it me? So tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame Is it you or is it me? I don't wanna feel this way But I can't stop fakin' I can't stop feeling I wish that things were right I wanted to be with you But I would never be enough And you would never, ever let me be, yeah So tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame Is it you or is it me? So tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame Was it you? Was it you? So tell me who's to blame (oh) Was it you or was it me?