You say you're doin' better now, been feeling good for a while You've got a brighter attitude and that's something that I should try You're sorry you didn't reach out, perhaps you didn't know quite how But now I've done that job for you, you wanna meet and talk it out But I don't wanna step back in your court Listen to your stories or hear your thoughts You did one too many things that made me feel like trash And I don't wanna put myself through that You'll see things a different way but now I know That's ok, that's ok You're not my story any more You're not my story any more I used to try so hard to please, I used to tie myself in knots Trying to get what people need, trying to be what people want Now I look for the line between being kind and being manipulated And if some people don't like me Then I won't try too hard to change it 'Cause it's not something they teach little girls in school Like cross your legs, smile or the golden rule If you've got a selfish lover or a one-way friend You don't have to live your life for them They'll see things a different way, but you should know That's ok, that's ok You're not my story anymore You're not my story anymore