Well, the most important relationship in my life is my relationship with my wife But it's funny because it's also the most difficult relationship in my life You know, waking up next to a person every day Having to deal with each other's flaws and uh personality and attitude Uh it can be difficult Um but I also see it as the most sanctified relationship in my life So when I think of the the pains and the difficulties that come along with marriage I'm often reminded of how the lord is particularly using marriage to build character in me So it's amazing that God can take something that That's so great but it's also so painful and difficult and use it for my growth And I have to say that marriage has definitely done a lot to build character in me just as a man And that's a growing pain