You really get to know someone When they're falling out of love with you Do they look you in the eye and say it Or whisper it to someone new? Point the finger, point the blame Or hold you 'til it's all okay? Saying "losing love is no one's fault" Sometimes you win, sometimes you don't When all infatuations gone And you tell each other what you want When all the playing games is done You really get to know someone You really get to know someone It's all in the way they say goodbye Do they curse your name and slam the door Or kiss you for just one last time? It's all in the way they tell the story Do they take the heat or take the glory Hey, losing love is no one's fault Sometimes you win, sometimes you don't When all infatuations gone And you tell each other what you want When all the playing games is done You really get to know someone So don't make it harder than it has to be Make it easy on me You really get to know someone When a little bit of time has passed When you see each other out somewhere It's all in the way their eyes react You turned around and smiled at me Kinder than you had to be You could've been a total stranger But that's not really in your nature And though it was a flash of time I'm glad I got to call you mine I learned a lot from loving you I learned a lot from losing you When all infatuations gone And you see each other moving on When all the playing games is done You really get to know someone Yeah, when there's nothing left to prove It's a little too late, but ain't it true? You really get to know someone When they're falling out of love with you