Growing up I used to tell myself that every thing I did was for a reason Then you blew in on a southern breeze and changed every ambition I never knew how much you changed me Until the day I walked away I never knew that everything I would say would one day become irrelevant So tell me again, what you said About the way you changed and the way this ends I just want to know how it feels to be the one who's life isn't collapsing I never wanted it to be this way But one day soon there will a come a day where you say "You're my biggest regret and I'll never forget how you threw my life away" I never knew how much you changed me Until the day I walked away I never knew that everything I would say would one day become irrelevant So tell me again, what you said About the way you changed and the way this ends I just want to know how it feels to be the one who's life isn't collapsing I may have lost my way And I refuse to change but you were the one who let me stay that way I chose to walk away when you know I could have stayed (But I'd rather let my life unfold) I never knew how much you changed me Until the day I walked away I never knew that everything I would say would one day become irrelevant So tell me again, what you said About the way you changed and the way this ends I just want to know how it feels to be the one who's life isn't collapsing Are you collapsing? Cause I'm collapsing